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Why do our words betray us at the most unexpected moments? Why does a polished speech stumble on a single phrase, or a casual conversation derail with an unintended remark? Why the Tongue Slips: How to Catch it is a revealing exploration of one of humanity's most universal, yet least understood, phenomena: slips of the tongue. For over fifteen years, Everest Turyahikayo has studied how people use language in workplaces, classrooms, boardrooms, and social gatherings. He has listened to bosses whose careless words exposed more than they intended, observed students whose slips drew laughter from their peers, and analyzed professionals whose small verbal errors carried disproportionate consequences. Drawing from psychology, linguistics, and organizational behavior, he demonstrates that these slips are not random accidents but meaningful signals-clues to our inner thoughts, emotions, and unconscious desires. At its heart, this book challenges the assumption that slips of the tongue are trivial or merely humorous. Instead, it shows how such moments can shape reputations, influence relationships, and alter outcomes. A misplaced word in a negotiation might cost trust. An unintended phrase in a speech may become tomorrow's headline. Even in private conversations, slips reveal truths that polite language often conceals. Through real-life stories and vivid examples, Turyahikayo illustrates both the comedy and the consequences of words that escape our control. Yet this is not simply a book about mistakes-it is also a guide to mastering communication. Readers will discover practical strategies to reduce the likelihood of slipping, from developing mindfulness in speech to practicing intentional pauses that give the brain time to align with the tongue. For those inevitable moments when words do escape incorrectly, the book offers tools for repair: how to acknowledge, reframe, and move past slips without deepening the damage. In a world where reputation and trust are fragile, these skills are invaluable. What makes Why the Tongue Slips stand out is its blend of scholarship and storytelling. Turyahikayo translates complex theories about memory, attention, and unconscious thought into relatable insights. He brings the reader into real-life situations where words went wrong: the executive who lost credibility after a sarcastic aside, the lecturer whose slip changed the mood of an entire classroom, the consultant who turned a near-disaster into a moment of authenticity. Each example reinforces a central truth-our tongues may slip, but how we respond determines whether we lose or gain influence. This book is written for a wide audience: leaders who must guard their credibility, professionals who rely on clear communication, students learning to navigate new environments, and everyday people who want to strengthen their relationships. It offers reassurance that slips are part of being human, while also empowering readers with techniques to minimize risk and maximize resilience. Ultimately, Why the Tongue Slips: How to Catch it is about more than avoiding embarrassment-it is about cultivating awareness of the power of words. It invites readers to see slips not merely as hazards but as opportunities: chances to reflect, to grow, and to connect more authentically with others. With wit, insight, and practical wisdom, Everest Turyahikayo shows that while no one is immune to verbal slips, everyone can learn to manage them-and even turn them into moments of strength. In a world where words can heal or harm, inspire or insult, build or break trust, this book reminds us that every conversation matters. Because sometimes, one slip of the tongue is all it takes to change everything.

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