The Tyranny of ""Fixing"" Yourself: How the Constant Obsession with Healing Is Keeping You Sick-And the Radical Freedom of Finally Letting Go

Author:   L J Renford
Publisher:   Independently Published
ISBN:  

9798277878866


Pages:   126
Publication Date:   08 December 2025
Format:   Paperback
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The Tyranny of ""Fixing"" Yourself: How the Constant Obsession with Healing Is Keeping You Sick-And the Radical Freedom of Finally Letting Go


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You've been working on yourself for years. You're not getting better. You're getting exhausted. You've read the books. Done the therapy. Processed the trauma. Learned your attachment style. Mapped your triggers. Journaled, meditated, attended workshops, hired coaches. And yet-you still don't feel healed. What if the problem isn't that you haven't done enough work? What if the work itself is the problem? In this provocative and liberating book, L.J. Renford exposes the dark truth about the self-help industrial complex: The healing industry doesn't want you healed. It wants you healing-forever. Because healed people don't buy the next book, book the next session, or sign up for the next course. You've been sold a lie: That you're broken and need fixing. That there's a perfect ""healed"" version of yourself waiting on the other side of enough work. That your worth depends on your wellness. Here's the radical truth: You're not broken. You never were. Your responses made sense. Your adaptations were brilliant. And the exhausting belief that you need constant fixing is the actual wound. This book will challenge everything you believe about healing, growth, and self-improvement: Why the ""healed person"" is a marketing myth designed to keep you consuming How therapeutic language has become performance instead of healing Why your trauma story has become an addiction that's keeping you stuck The economic incentives that profit from your perpetual inadequacy How to actually stop the healing work (and what to do instead) Why accepting yourself as imperfect is more radical than any breakthrough This isn't another self-help book. There are no exercises, no seven-step programs, no promises of transformation. This is permission to stop. Permission to be imperfect. Permission to live your life instead of endlessly preparing to live it. For anyone exhausted from: Years of therapy without feeling better Self-help addiction and healing fatigue Making their trauma their identity Performing wellness while feeling broken The endless pursuit of being ""healed"" The most revolutionary thing you can do is stop trying to fix yourself. Scroll up and start reading-because you've done enough work already.

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Author:   L J Renford
Publisher:   Independently Published
Imprint:   Independently Published
Dimensions:   Width: 15.20cm , Height: 0.70cm , Length: 22.90cm
Weight:   0.177kg
ISBN:  

9798277878866


Pages:   126
Publication Date:   08 December 2025
Audience:   General/trade ,  General
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   Available To Order   Availability explained
We have confirmation that this item is in stock with the supplier. It will be ordered in for you and dispatched immediately.

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