Nothing Bad Enough Happened: When Your Trauma Doesn't Feel Valid: A Guide for People Whose Pain Doesn't Feel ""Real Enough"" to Count

Author:   Dorian Lamarre
Publisher:   Independently Published
ISBN:  

9798275945096


Pages:   82
Publication Date:   24 November 2025
Format:   Paperback
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Nothing Bad Enough Happened: When Your Trauma Doesn't Feel Valid: A Guide for People Whose Pain Doesn't Feel ""Real Enough"" to Count


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You've been telling yourself the same thing for years: ""Nothing bad enough happened to me."" Your childhood was ""fine."" Nobody hit you. Nobody screamed. You had food, shelter, safety. By all objective measures, you should be okay. So why do you struggle with relationships? Why can't you ask for help without feeling like a burden? Why do you apologize for existing, minimize your needs, and feel like you're faking your way through life? If you've ever thought ""other people had it so much worse,"" this book is for you. Nothing Bad Enough Happened is a validation-first guide for people whose trauma doesn't fit the narrative. It's for adults who grew up with emotional neglect-the kind that doesn't leave visible scars but shapes everything about who you became. The kind that's defined by absence rather than presence: the parent who was physically there but emotionally gone, the needs that went unmet, the pain that was dismissed as dramatic. This book will help you: Recognize emotional neglect even when ""nothing bad"" happened Understand why you compare your pain to others' and always find yours insufficient Identify the patterns emotional neglect creates: hyperindependence, difficulty with emotions, relationship struggles, chronic guilt around needs Stop defending the people who failed you and start honoring the child who survived it Grieve what you didn't get without needing a dramatic origin story Build new patterns without waiting for perfect healing You don't need a horror story to justify your struggle. You don't need to prove your trauma was ""bad enough"" to deserve healing. You just need to tell the truth about what actually happened-and what didn't happen. Your pain doesn't need to win a contest to be real. Your childhood doesn't need to have been ""the worst"" for it to have damaged you. Your experience just needs to be yours. And that's enough. This is your permission to stop minimizing, stop comparing, and start believing that you matter-not because of what you achieve or how easy you are, but simply because you exist. Nothing bad enough happened. And that's exactly the problem. But you're not trapped there anymore.

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Author:   Dorian Lamarre
Publisher:   Independently Published
Imprint:   Independently Published
Dimensions:   Width: 15.20cm , Height: 0.40cm , Length: 22.90cm
Weight:   0.122kg
ISBN:  

9798275945096


Pages:   82
Publication Date:   24 November 2025
Audience:   General/trade ,  General
Format:   Paperback
Publisher's Status:   Active
Availability:   Available To Order   Availability explained
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