Overview

I love my husband. He no longer wants sex. Is it me? Follow the quest of one wife as she tries to fix her dead-bedroom marriage. Learn from all that she did right - and wrong. If you love your partner but are worried about your sex life, have mismatched libidos, or feel rejected and alone sharing your bed, Hard On Us is your companion read. Hard On Us is the true story of a couple experiencing erectile dysfunction. Author Donna Mitra candidly discusses getting to the doctor, penis performance issues, the use of hard on pills (Viagra & Cialis), and the avoidable errors made by a couple, medical practitioners, sex and marital therapists. It is an enlightening story for couples trying to navigate these issues. Hard On Us is ultimately a story of personal growth, resilience and transformation. It is one woman's celebration of life as she discovers that it is not selfish to meet her own needs too.

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The following are reviews from the public experiencing mismatched libido marriages. All can be found on the Amazon UK page: 'It takes great courage to write about the very heart of a relationship, especially the parts that are going wrong.' Frank account of life in a mismatched libido marriage. Going through a situation like this in real life is incredibly isolating, and to read the struggles of someone else makes you realise you're not alone. There are so many of us suffering in silence, and Donna has given us a voice. The book is incredibly well written and I'll be making use of the resources she suggests Ground breaking. The topic of Erectile Dysfunction should not be taboo, emasculating or embarrassing. The more we talk about it openly in society, the more men will feel comfortable talking about it. A brutally open and honest recounting of married life, parenthood and a wife trying to work her way through the minefield that is her husband's low libido and ensuing erectile dysfunction, it's causes and possible treatments. The description of birthing and post-partum are some of the best I've read. This work is as honest as it gets. A profound examination of marriage. This book covers everything from being the bride, to infertility, to post-partum depression, to counselling, to having an open marriage. It is a roller coaster, yet life often is that type of journey. Morgan Destera, Author & Blogger 'You've given me so much to think about and your lessons learned and words on self-care are incredibly helpful.' The kind of intimate chat I'd have with a girlfriend about their life over a cup of tea!' 'It's like you just opened up completely to the reader and told them to come and live with your husband and you.'- RG 'I am the higher libido partner and my experiences echo yours so closely. My wife's zero interest in sex has left me hurt. She is mostly unwilling to understand how big a deal it is for me. Sleeping next to someone you love and want to be physical with messes my head up. It's good to have a book that captures that so well' - JC An inspirational read. This lady's journey through her marriage is told so honestly and with such empathy. I connected with many aspects (despite my journey being completely different!) and am both delighted and grateful that I read this book. Searingly honest. Has a number of helpful suggestions as how to tackle low libido, erectile dysfunction, self care and marital ups and downs whilst leaving no stone left unturned. I read this amazing book in less than 3 days. So much of it was exactly like my first marriage. An inspirational read. This lady's journey through her marriage is told so honestly and with such empathy. I connected with many aspects (despite my journey being completely different!) and am both delighted and grateful that I read this book.

The following are reviews from the public experiencing mismatched libido marriages. All can be found on the Amazon UK page: 'It takes great courage to write about the very heart of a relationship, especially the parts that are going wrong.' Frank account of life in a mismatched libido marriage. Going through a situation like this in real life is incredibly isolating, and to read the struggles of someone else makes you realise you're not alone. There are so many of us suffering in silence, and Donna has given us a voice. The book is incredibly well written and I'll be making use of the resources she suggests Ground breaking. The topic of Erectile Dysfunction should not be taboo, emasculating or embarrassing. The more we talk about it openly in society, the more men will feel comfortable talking about it. A brutally open and honest recounting of married life, parenthood and a wife trying to work her way through the minefield that is her husband's low libido and ensuing erectile dysfunction, it's causes and possible treatments. The description of birthing and post-partum are some of the best I've read. This work is as honest as it gets. A profound examination of marriage. This book covers everything from being the bride, to infertility, to post-partum depression, to counselling, to having an open marriage. It is a roller coaster, yet life often is that type of journey. Morgan Destera, Author & Blogger 'You've given me so much to think about and your lessons learned and words on self-care are incredibly helpful.' The kind of intimate chat I'd have with a girlfriend about their life over a cup of tea!' 'It's like you just opened up completely to the reader and told them to come and live with your husband and you.'- RG 'I am the higher libido partner and my experiences echo yours so closely. My wife's zero interest in sex has left me hurt. She is mostly unwilling to understand how big a deal it is for me. Sleeping next to someone you love and want to be physical with messes my head up. It's good to have a book that captures that so well' - JC An inspirational read. This lady's journey through her marriage is told so honestly and with such empathy. I connected with many aspects (despite my journey being completely different!) and am both delighted and grateful that I read this book. Searingly honest. Has a number of helpful suggestions as how to tackle low libido, erectile dysfunction, self care and marital ups and downs whilst leaving no stone left unturned. I read this amazing book in less than 3 days. So much of it was exactly like my first marriage.

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"Donna Mitra spent over twelve years raising a family in a dead-bedroom marriage underpinned by Erectile Dysfunction and mental health challenges. Marriage and parenting don't come with a manual, but Mitra's work is filled with the hard-earned lessons of real-life experience.""I never expected to live in a sexless marriage, struggle with motherhood, or burn out in the process. How we make peace with ourselves fascinates me and I hope this book gives comfort that others in a mismatched libido marriage are not alone. I hope my story encourages understanding, compassion, shame-free and honest conversations between the people that love each other the most."""

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