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"Sometimes, we find ourselves in situations where we haven't much choice. Our heart tells us one thing while our mind tells us something entirely different. And Sometimes...We're reluctant to admit that the person silently hiding within us is a much better version of our self than we ever realized was possible. That's what Veasey learned, the hard way, after her husband died in 2017. That's when she became her parents' caregiver 24/7, and they both had Alzheimer's. This is a truthful, personal story that bares the author's soul as she struggled to find acceptance, forgiveness, and peace. You'll shed a few tears and laugh along the way. But never forget that this could be you one day, a reluctant caregiver for a loved one. As Vicki states in the introduction, ""No one should enter this world of caregiving blindsided, without some idea of what to expect."" Veasey takes us on a behind the scenes tour of the emotional struggles, relentless stress, and daily frustrations she contended with as her parents' caregiver, while simultaneously trying to come to grips with the reality of recent widowhood. Despite everything, the author never gave up, even though there were many times when she was tempted to. Along the way, Vicki learned more about herself and her relationship with God; an enlightenment that helped her to accept the new chapter of her life as a widow and full-time caregiver. Her story is both spellbinding and honest, passionate and raw. Eventually, she was able to look herself in the mirror at night and say, ""I'm an amazing caregiver!"" The author doesn't mince her words regarding her concerns about widowhood, quality of care for our loved ones afflicted with Alzheimer's and dementia, the quality of life for dementia caregivers, and the need for short-term respite care so caregivers can take a much-needed break from caregiving once in a while. Scattered throughout the book are Caregiving Tips from the Heart. These invaluable bits of information, thirty-six in all, are provided to assist Alzheimer's and dementia caregivers. This book also includes an extensive bibliography and additional resource materials. Someday, you may find yourself a widow, widower, or dementia caregiver, are you prepared? Veasey wasn't at the time, but she learned the hard way how to make the best of a bad situation and she learned so much about herself in the process. And, rather than turn her back on the experience, she's embraced it by becoming an advocate for Alzheimer's, dementia, and widowhood. ""No one but another widow can understand what a widow goes through. And no one but another caregiver knows what a dementia caregiver goes through."" During her journey, Vicki learned just how strong she was and to put her trust in God. With time, she was also able to look herself in the mirror each night, smile and say, ""I'm an amazing caregiver!"""

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"Many of us have first-hand knowledge of Alzheimer's/dementia through family or friends affected by this insidious disease. Those of us, who have been in the position of caregiver, know and relate to the cycle of pain, love, humor, disbelief, and forgiveness; we all experience on our journey of ""doing our best"", yet lamenting our shortcomings. In Good Morning I Love You, Maintaining Sanity & Humor Amidst Widowhood, Caregiving and Alzheimer's, author, Vicki Veasey, takes us on an unfettered pilgrimage through not only the caregiving experience, but the heartache and joys of the rest of life that continue unabated along-side our adventure as caretaker to our loved one(s). Along the way, she graciously and vulnerably shares sage advice and tips she's acquired along the way. Good Morning, I Love You is an honest account of the challenges in the day to day life of dealing with Alzheimer's/dementia. It is a worthwhile read for anyone feeling isolated in their position. Vicki reminds us we are not alone. - Dianne Osmun, Author Finding Mom in the Midst of Alzheimer's: A Daughter's Journey of Healing, Reconciliation and Acceptance As I scrolled through the Table of Contents, I was captivated by the chapter titles such as, ""Where's the Nearest Bathroom?"" ""Only Mom Would Have Understood,"" and ""If Only I Had Stood My Ground."" These and other chapters enticed me to read further. Reading the Introduction and finding the statements of ""when will this end,"" and ""when will I have the opportunity to have fun and live life to its fullest"" made me realize that as a caregiver I had the same feelings, as Vicki and even same sense of guilt for even thinking them. I knew then that this story would be as promised: a truly honest story of Caregiving. A definite read for anyone caring for those they love. ˗ Karen Kline, BSN, RN Former Coordinator of Memory Lance Respite and Support Group First United Methodist Church Homosassa, Florida In Good Morning I Love You, Maintaining Sanity & Humor Amidst Widowhood, Caregiving and Alzheimer's Vicki Veasey's un-censored account of the daily life of being a caregiver for both parents with Alzheimer's and dementia will bring you to laughter and or tears. Out of her experience using raw language, she has written a much-needed resource for those facing difficult times with loved ones diagnosed with Alzheimer's. My stepfather's last years were spent with this debilitating disease and I had no resources like Vicki's book. I have also worked for years with hospice patients, including Alzheimer's and dementia patients. I have trained hundreds of volunteers on how to respond and interact with those in mental and cognitive decline and have visited many patients within Alzheimer's facilities and floors. I have also witnessed the wear and tear on the families trying to be the sole caregivers for their loved ones. Good-Morning I Love You, Maintaining Sanity & Humor Amidst Widowhood, Caregiving and Alzheimer's should become a book every home health care, hospice and Alzheimer's' non-profit organization or nursing home provides for their clients' families. ˗ Marian Poeppelmeyer, Author, Speaker, Coach, Author of Finding My Father; former Hospice Volunteer Director for ten counties and former Hospice Community Liaison"

Many of us have first-hand knowledge of Alzheimer's/dementia through family or friends affected by this insidious disease. Those of us, who have been in the position of caregiver, know and relate to the cycle of pain, love, humor, disbelief, and forgiveness; we all experience on our journey of doing our best , yet lamenting our shortcomings. In Good Morning I Love You, Maintaining Sanity & Humor Amidst Widowhood, Caregiving and Alzheimer's, author, Vicki Veasey, takes us on an unfettered pilgrimage through not only the caregiving experience, but the heartache and joys of the rest of life that continue unabated along-side our adventure as caretaker to our loved one(s). Along the way, she graciously and vulnerably shares sage advice and tips she's acquired along the way. Good Morning, I Love You is an honest account of the challenges in the day to day life of dealing with Alzheimer's/dementia. It is a worthwhile read for anyone feeling isolated in their position. Vicki reminds us we are not alone. - Dianne Osmun, Author Finding Mom in the Midst of Alzheimer's: A Daughter's Journey of Healing, Reconciliation and Acceptance As I scrolled through the Table of Contents, I was captivated by the chapter titles such as, Where's the Nearest Bathroom? Only Mom Would Have Understood, and If Only I Had Stood My Ground. These and other chapters enticed me to read further. Reading the Introduction and finding the statements of when will this end, and when will I have the opportunity to have fun and live life to its fullest made me realize that as a caregiver I had the same feelings, as Vicki and even same sense of guilt for even thinking them. I knew then that this story would be as promised: a truly honest story of Caregiving. A definite read for anyone caring for those they love. Karen Kline, BSN, RN Former Coordinator of Memory Lance Respite and Support Group First United Methodist Church Homosassa, Florida In Good Morning I Love You, Maintaining Sanity & Humor Amidst Widowhood, Caregiving and Alzheimer's Vicki Veasey's un-censored account of the daily life of being a caregiver for both parents with Alzheimer's and dementia will bring you to laughter and or tears. Out of her experience using raw language, she has written a much-needed resource for those facing difficult times with loved ones diagnosed with Alzheimer's. My stepfather's last years were spent with this debilitating disease and I had no resources like Vicki's book. I have also worked for years with hospice patients, including Alzheimer's and dementia patients. I have trained hundreds of volunteers on how to respond and interact with those in mental and cognitive decline and have visited many patients within Alzheimer's facilities and floors. I have also witnessed the wear and tear on the families trying to be the sole caregivers for their loved ones. Good-Morning I Love You, Maintaining Sanity & Humor Amidst Widowhood, Caregiving and Alzheimer's should become a book every home health care, hospice and Alzheimer's' non-profit organization or nursing home provides for their clients' families. Marian Poeppelmeyer, Author, Speaker, Coach, Author of Finding My Father; former Hospice Volunteer Director for ten counties and former Hospice Community Liaison

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Vicki Veasey is an author, advocate, speaker, and widow & caregiving coach who helps others to maintain sanity and humor amidst widowhood, caregiving and Alzheimer's. She helps friends embrace the joy in each new day, providing insight on caring with a loving heart, and guiding the heart in response to a loved one's transition, pointing the way to a happier heart. A Michigan native, she now calls Florida home. Vicki enjoys reading, traveling, time with family/friends, and quiet time at home with her pups, Kipper and Katy.

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