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"NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER A Time Top 10 Book of the Year - A San Francisco Chronicle Book of the Year The author of the New York Times bestseller Cinderella Ate My Daughter offers a clear-eyed picture of the new sexual landscape girls face in the post-princess stage--high school through college--and reveals how they are negotiating it. A generation gap has emerged between parents and their girls. Even in this age of helicopter parenting, the mothers and fathers of tomorrow's women have little idea what their daughters are up to sexually or how they feel about it. Drawing on in-depth interviews with over seventy young women and a wide range of psychologists, academics, and experts, renowned journalist Peggy Orenstein goes where most others fear to tread, pulling back the curtain on the hidden truths, hard lessons, and important possibilities of girls' sex lives in the modern world. While the media has focused--often to sensational effect--on the rise of casual sex and the prevalence of rape on campus, in Girls and Sex Peggy Orenstein brings much more to the table. She examines the ways in which porn and all its sexual myths have seeped into young people's lives; what it means to be the ""the perfect slut"" and why many girls scorn virginity; the complicated terrain of hookup culture and the unfortunate realities surrounding assault. In Orenstein's hands these issues are never reduced to simplistic ""truths;"" rather, her powerful reporting opens up a dialogue on a potent, often silent, subtext of American life today--giving readers comprehensive and in-depth information with which to understand, and navigate, this complicated new world."

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I m not going to tell you to go right now and buy a copy . I m going to tell you to buy two copies: One for yourself, and one for the teenager in your life . Refuses to be judgmental or doom and gloom. Instead, it offers something else a demand for education, enlightenment, and ultimately, the radical notion of equal satisfaction. --Adrian Liang, Amazon Best Book of the Month citation

Thought-provoking. . .Girls & Sex is full of thoughtful concern and empathetic questions. --Cindi Leive, New York Times Book Review, cover review Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans. I seriously want to quit my job and tour the country, furiously hawking Peggy Orenstein s insightful, important book. --Rashida Jones, actress, writer, producer A smart, sobering guide to the sexual lives of young women today. --Ann Levin, Associated Press A wake-up call. --Audrey Bilger, San Francisco Chronicle Peggy Orenstein sheds light on an important and too often misunderstood topic. Her reporting shows how a healthy and direct approach to sexuality is a key component of gender equality. --Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook and founder of LeanIn.Org I m not going to tell you to go right now and buy a copy . I m going to tell you to buy two copies: One for yourself, and one for the teenager in your life . Refuses to be judgmental or doom and gloom. Instead, it offers something else a demand for education, enlightenment, and ultimately, the radical notion of equal satisfaction. --Adrian Liang, Amazon Best Book of the Month citation A smart, sobering guide to the sexual lives of young women today. --Ann Levin, Associated Press Peggy Orenstein sheds light on an important and too often misunderstood topic. Her reporting shows how a healthy and direct approach to sexuality is a key component of gender equality. --Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook and founder of LeanIn.Org I'm not going to tell you to go right now and buy a copy.... I'm going to tell you to buy two copies: One for yourself, and one for the teenager in your life.... Refuses to be judgmental or doom and gloom. Instead, it offers something else -- a demand for education, enlightenment, and ultimately, the radical notion of equal satisfaction. --Adrian Liang, Amazon Best Book of the Month citation Orenstein is such a breezy, funny, writer, it's easy to forget she's an important thinker too. --People, four stars, on Cinderella Ate My Daughter Sex and teenagers have always gone together, but parents reading Orenstein's frank exploration of current trends may still be in for a shock.... This isn't a comfortable book to read (Orenstein herself admits twinges a few times), but it's an important one. --Booklist Accessible prose and narrative style will bring the work of many thoughtful experts to a wider audience.... Young adults, parents, educators, and activists alike will find this passionate work a timely conversation starter. --Library Journal Eye-opening.... Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women's bodies and women's pleasure. [A] smart, earnest, and timely assessment. --Publishers Weekly, starred review Orenstein has compiled an eye-opening study of the way that girls and women in America think, feel, and act regarding sex.... The abundant information she provides will give parents and young girls the power to make informed decisions regarding sex. --Kirkus A sequel of sorts to Orenstein's 'Cinderella Ate My Daughter'.... Sketches a sobering portrait. --Oliver Wang, L.A. Times An enlightening, sad and shocking look into the minds of teenagers and their views on casual sex, love and relationships. --Aimee Blanchette, Minneapolis Star Tribune Deeply reported, passionately argued. --Isaac Chotiner, Slate With compassion and insight, Peggy Orenstein holds a mirror not only to girls' experiences but to our own judgments. No less than the emotional health and physical safety of our daughters (and of our sons, by the way) depends on the kind of insight Girls & Sex provides. --Rosalind Wiseman, author of Queen Bees and Wannabes Eloquent.... [A] compact, polished, and readable... cris de coeur. --Julia M. Klein, Boston Globe If you're going to talk about women in the 21st century, you MUST read Peggy Orenstein's Girls & Sex. No one else is asking these questions; so no one else, then, is finding out the answers. --Caitlin Moran, Author of How to Be a Woman 'Girls & Sex' may do more to change how sex education is rethought and how parents and daughters discuss pleasure and sexuality than any book since the landmark 'Our Bodies, Ourselves.' --Tamara Straus, San Francisco Chronicle An intimate view of the sex lives of young women in the United States. While revealing disturbing common threads... Orenstein brings levity to this fraught topic. --Elle Fascinating.... A wise and sharply argued look at how girls are navigating 'the complicated new landscape' of sex and sexuality. --Economist [An] important new book.... Her writing is clear and compelling, her analysis is incisive and thorough, and her findings are downright troubling. --Sharon Holbrook, Washington Post Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans. I seriously want to quit my job and tour the country, furiously hawking Peggy Orenstein's insightful, important book. --Rashida Jones, actress, writer, producer Thought-provoking. . .Girls & Sex is full of thoughtful concern and empathetic questions. --Cindi Leive, New York Times Book Review, cover review A nuanced read for anyone who remembers being a young woman and anyone who is raising the next generation of girls (and boys) for whom we hope the future holds sexual satisfaction, not pain or disappointment. --Rebecca Traister, More Nonsensational but deeply entertaining.... A must-read. --People, Book of the Week Provocative and thoughtful.... Both an examination of sexual culture and a guide on how to improve it.... The breadth of Orenstein's reporting ... is impressive. --Laura Stepp, Washington Post Orenstein is such a breezy, funny, writer, it s easy to forget she s an important thinker too. --People, four stars, on Cinderella Ate My Daughter Sex and teenagers have always gone together, but parents reading Orenstein s frank exploration of current trends may still be in for a shock . This isn t a comfortable book to read (Orenstein herself admits twinges a few times), but it s an important one. --Booklist Accessible prose and narrative style will bring the work of many thoughtful experts to a wider audience . Young adults, parents, educators, and activists alike will find this passionate work a timely conversation starter. --Library Journal Eye-opening . Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women s bodies and women s pleasure. [A] smart, earnest, and timely assessment. --Publishers Weekly, starred review Orenstein has compiled an eye-opening study of the way that girls and women in America think, feel, and act regarding sex . The abundant information she provides will give parents and young girls the power to make informed decisions regarding sex. --Kirkus A sequel of sorts to Orenstein s Cinderella Ate My Daughter . Sketches a sobering portrait. --Oliver Wang, L.A. Times An enlightening, sad and shocking look into the minds of teenagers and their views on casual sex, love and relationships. --Aimee Blanchette, Minneapolis Star Tribune Deeply reported, passionately argued. --Isaac Chotiner, Slate With compassion and insight, Peggy Orenstein holds a mirror not only to girls experiences but to our own judgments. No less than the emotional health and physical safety of our daughters (and of our sons, by the way) depends on the kind of insight Girls & Sex provides. --Rosalind Wiseman, author of Queen Bees and Wannabes Eloquent . [A] compact, polished, and readable cris de coeur. --Julia M. Klein, Boston Globe If you re going to talk about women in the 21st century, you MUST read Peggy Orenstein s Girls & Sex. No one else is asking these questions; so no one else, then, is finding out the answers. --Caitlin Moran, Author of How to Be a Woman Girls & Sex may do more to change how sex education is rethought and how parents and daughters discuss pleasure and sexuality than any book since the landmark Our Bodies, Ourselves. --Tamara Straus, San Francisco Chronicle An intimate view of the sex lives of young women in the United States. While revealing disturbing common threads Orenstein brings levity to this fraught topic. --Elle Fascinating . A wise and sharply argued look at how girls are navigating the complicated new landscape of sex and sexuality. --Economist [An] important new book.... Her writing is clear and compelling, her analysis is incisive and thorough, and her findings are downright troubling. --Sharon Holbrook, Washington Post Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans. I seriously want to quit my job and tour the country, furiously hawking Peggy Orenstein s insightful, important book. --Rashida Jones, actress, writer, producer Thought-provoking. . .Girls & Sex is full of thoughtful concern and empathetic questions. --Cindi Leive, New York Times Book Review, cover review A nuanced read for anyone who remembers being a young woman and anyone who is raising the next generation of girls (and boys) for whom we hope the future holds sexual satisfaction, not pain or disappointment. --Rebecca Traister, More Nonsensational but deeply entertaining . A must-read. --People, Book of the Week Provocative and thoughtful.... Both an examination of sexual culture and a guide on how to improve it.... The breadth of Orenstein s reporting ... is impressive. --Laura Stepp, Washington Post

Peggy Orenstein sheds light on an important and too often misunderstood topic. Her reporting shows how a healthy and direct approach to sexuality is a key component of gender equality. --Sheryl Sandberg, COO of Facebook and founder of LeanIn.Org A smart, sobering guide to the sexual lives of young women today. --Ann Levin, Associated Press I'm not going to tell you to go right now and buy a copy.... I'm going to tell you to buy two copies: One for yourself, and one for the teenager in your life.... Refuses to be judgmental or doom and gloom. Instead, it offers something else -- a demand for education, enlightenment, and ultimately, the radical notion of equal satisfaction. --Adrian Liang, Amazon Best Book of the Month citation Sex and teenagers have always gone together, but parents reading Orenstein's frank exploration of current trends may still be in for a shock.... This isn't a comfortable book to read (Orenstein herself admits twinges a few times), but it's an important one. --Booklist Eye-opening.... Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women's bodies and women's pleasure. [A] smart, earnest, and timely assessment. --Publishers Weekly, starred review A sequel of sorts to Orenstein's 'Cinderella Ate My Daughter'.... Sketches a sobering portrait. --Oliver Wang, L.A. Times Deeply reported, passionately argued. --Isaac Chotiner, Slate If you're going to talk about women in the 21st century, you MUST read Peggy Orenstein's Girls & Sex. No one else is asking these questions; so no one else, then, is finding out the answers. --Caitlin Moran, Author of How to Be a Woman An intimate view of the sex lives of young women in the United States. While revealing disturbing common threads... Orenstein brings levity to this fraught topic. --Elle A nuanced read for anyone who remembers being a young woman and anyone who is raising the next generation of girls (and boys) for whom we hope the future holds sexual satisfaction, not pain or disappointment. --Rebecca Traister, More Provocative and thoughtful.... Both an examination of sexual culture and a guide on how to improve it.... The breadth of Orenstein's reporting ... is impressive. --Laura Stepp, Washington Post Orenstein is such a breezy, funny, writer, it's easy to forget she's an important thinker too. --People, four stars, on Cinderella Ate My Daughter Accessible prose and narrative style will bring the work of many thoughtful experts to a wider audience.... Young adults, parents, educators, and activists alike will find this passionate work a timely conversation starter. --Library Journal Orenstein has compiled an eye-opening study of the way that girls and women in America think, feel, and act regarding sex.... The abundant information she provides will give parents and young girls the power to make informed decisions regarding sex. --Kirkus An enlightening, sad and shocking look into the minds of teenagers and their views on casual sex, love and relationships. --Aimee Blanchette, Minneapolis Star Tribune With compassion and insight, Peggy Orenstein holds a mirror not only to girls' experiences but to our own judgments. No less than the emotional health and physical safety of our daughters (and of our sons, by the way) depends on the kind of insight Girls & Sex provides. --Rosalind Wiseman, author of Queen Bees and Wannabes Eloquent.... [A] compact, polished, and readable... cris de coeur. --Julia M. Klein, Boston Globe 'Girls & Sex' may do more to change how sex education is rethought and how parents and daughters discuss pleasure and sexuality than any book since the landmark 'Our Bodies, Ourselves.' --Tamara Straus, San Francisco Chronicle Fascinating.... A wise and sharply argued look at how girls are navigating 'the complicated new landscape' of sex and sexuality. --Economist [An] important new book.... Her writing is clear and compelling, her analysis is incisive and thorough, and her findings are downright troubling. --Sharon Holbrook, Washington Post Girls & Sex should be mandatory for anyone who cares about the present and future cultural landscape for girls, women, humans. I seriously want to quit my job and tour the country, furiously hawking Peggy Orenstein's insightful, important book. --Rashida Jones, actress, writer, producer Thought-provoking. . .Girls & Sex is full of thoughtful concern and empathetic questions. --Cindi Leive, New York Times Book Review, cover review Nonsensational but deeply entertaining.... A must-read. --People, Book of the Week

Orenstein is such a breezy, funny, writer, it's easy to forget she's an important thinker too. --<i>People</i>, four stars, on <i>Cinderella Ate My Daughter</i>

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Peggy Orenstein is the New York Times bestselling author of Boys & Sex, Don't Call Me Princess, Girls & Sex, Cinderella Ate My Daughter, Waiting for Daisy, Flux, and Schoolgirls. A frequent contributor to the New York Times, she has written for the Washington Post, The Atlantic, Afar, The New Yorker, and other publications, and has contributed commentary to NPR's All Things Considered and PBS NewsHour. She lives in Northern California.

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