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Do you feel bored when things are calm and ""at home"" when things are falling apart? If you grew up in an environment where love was conditional or safety was unpredictable, your brain may have mistaken familiarity for safety. You aren't addicted to drama; you are homesick for chaos. Stability feels like a trap, and peace feels like boredom. Chaos Feels Familiar When Stability Was Never Safe is a compassionate roadmap for anyone trying to break the cycle of familiar pain. Alex D. Anderson guides you through the unlearning process, helping you decode the ""Silent Code"" of survival that is running your life and showing you how to finally find safety in peace. Inside, you will discover: The Adrenaline Tax: Why you feel exhausted after a crisis ends and how to stop living your life on emotional credit. The Myth of Boring: Why healthy relationships feel like ""no spark"" to a nervous system wired for danger, and how to retrain your taste for stability. The Art of Arson: Understanding why we self-sabotage when things get ""too good"" (The Upper Limit Problem). Mourning the War: How to let go of your identity as a ""survivor"" so you can finally become a ""liver."" The Architecture of Safety: Practical tools to build boundaries (""Walls with Doors"") and silence the Inner Critic (""The Bully with Your Voice""). You survived the storm. Now, it's time to survive the quiet. This book is your guide to building a life you don't need to escape from.

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