Overview
A NEW SPECIAL EDITION WITH TWO BONUS CHAPTERS I know exactly what it's like to put others first, to settle for less and to navigate relationships while trying to balance your independence and goals. Whether you're single, taken, heartbroken, healing or trying to level up into the best version of yourself, Buy Yourself The Damn Flowers is an in-depth, comprehensive guide to all things self-love. Includes actionable homework, transformative tools and reassuring lessons that will help every woman to cultivate a lasting love for the person who matters most: you. It's finally time to buy yourself the damn flowers. Tam x
Full Product Details
Author: Tam Kaur
Publisher: Bonnier Books Ltd
Imprint: BLINK Publishing
Dimensions:
Width: 14.30cm
, Height: 3.00cm
, Length: 22.70cm
Weight: 0.426kg
ISBN: 9781788709996
ISBN 10: 1788709993
Pages: 336
Publication Date: 05 February 2026
Audience:
General/trade
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General
Format: Hardback
Publisher's Status: Active
Availability: Not yet available
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Reviews
I read the book during my breakup last year and it helped me build my confidence back up and learn to love myself again and rely on myself sourcing my own happiness, not seeking it from the outside. I went and made it my mission to tick off all the solo date ideas which took me on so many adventures including my first solo theatre date which was the scariest for me! Please go and read it if you are looking to seek self-fulfilment and self-love. * Chiara King *
Author Information
Tam Kaur is a British author, entrepreneur, and cultural voice whose work is dedicated to helping women reclaim their confidence, clarity, and sense of self. Her journey from self-doubt to self-possession, and her bold reframing of self-obsession as something intentional rather than indulgent, has resonated with audiences around the world, who look to her for honest reflections on love, identity, growth, and what it truly means to choose yourself. A Forbes 30 Under 30 honouree, Tam built her platform through thoughtful commentary and candid storytelling on modern relationships and personal evolution. Her work now spans writing, podcasting, speaking, and an emerging presence across fashion and beauty, where she explores style as a form of self-expression and personal power. She is also the founder of Self Obsessed Journal, a premium self-development brand designed to help women build intentional, emotionally grounded lives through daily reflection and practical mindset tools. Tam continues to write, create, and connect with women worldwide. Her mission remains simple: to help every woman place herself at the centre of her own life, with certainty, softness, and unwavering self-worth.
