When Worry Works: How to Harness Your Parenting Stress and Guide Your Teen to Success

Author:   Dana Dorfman, PhD
Publisher:   Rowman & Littlefield
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9781538164532


Pages:   218
Publication Date:   13 January 2023
Format:   Hardback
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When Worry Works: How to Harness Your Parenting Stress and Guide Your Teen to Success


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A roadmap for parents on how to manage adolescent achievement stress, make values-driven, rather than anxiety-driven parenting decisions, and raise flourishing teens and the future generation of successful adults.

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Author:   Dana Dorfman, PhD
Publisher:   Rowman & Littlefield
Imprint:   Rowman & Littlefield
Dimensions:   Width: 15.00cm , Height: 2.10cm , Length: 21.70cm
Weight:   0.345kg
ISBN:  

9781538164532


ISBN 10:   1538164531
Pages:   218
Publication Date:   13 January 2023
Audience:   General/trade ,  General
Format:   Hardback
Publisher's Status:   Active
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WHEN WORRY WORKS How to Harness Parenting Stress and Guide Your Teen to Success ********** PART I WHY, WHAT AND HOW PARENTS WORRY CHAPTER 1: THE DILEMMA DU JOUR ………………………. 1 CHAPTER 2: ANXIETY IS THE NEW SUGAR …………………14 CHAPTER 3: HOW WORRY WORKS ……………………………29 ************ PART II PARENT ACHIEVEMENT ANXIETY REACTION TYPES INTRODUCTION TO PARTS………………………………………..55 CHAPTER 4: THE SCULPTOR ……………………………………..56 CHAPTER 5: THE GAME SHOW CONTESTANT ………………..89 CHAPTER 6: THE CROWD PLEASER ……………………………109 CHAPTER 7: THE AVOIDER………………………………………..124 CHAPTER 8: THE CLAIRVOYANT ………………………………..141 CHAPTER 9: THE SHEPHERD ……………………………………...159 CHAPTER 10: THE CORRECTOR ………………………………….178 CHAPTER 11: THE REPLICATOR ……………………………….191 *********** PART III PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER CHAPTER 12: THE VALUE OF VALUES……………………… 206 CONCLUSION ………………………………………………………220 BIBLIOGRAPHY ……………………………………………………224 APPENDIX …………………………………………………………...229 Parenting Decision Making Worksheet Values List

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Dana Dorfman's When Worry Works nails the today's parenting zeitgeist perfectly! It is the perfect guide for parents of teens in these challenging times. Dorfman's humor and honesty about her own parenting pitfalls make this book relatable, comforting, and nonjudgmental. She also offers a clear roadmap for parents to understand their own anxieties so they can be solid, loving guides to their teens.--Lisa Spiegel Out of all of the stages of childhood, the teen years are notoriously the most difficult for parents to navigate. Teens continue to need our guidance, support and involvement and yet are also working hard to separate from us, to develop their own set of beliefs and ideas and to make their own decisions. And so, there is a delicate balance parents need to strike during this tumultuous time. When Worry Works is a must read for any parent struggling with this complicated combination of opposing needs. Dorfman's wise, reassuring, and practical advice will automatically turn the heat down on these family struggles. She quickly identifies herself as a fellow worrier with teens and so approaches her topic from a place of kindness, knowledge, and identification. She advocates for our children while somehow never judging or criticizing parents. Using compelling vignettes from her own clients she identifies eight different brands of parental anxiety and then guides readers to recognize their own style and then understand the origins of the worry so that they can ward off unhelpful reactions. Hearing Dr. Dorfman gently yet expertly delve into and help parents sort out their worries will make the reader yearn to have Dorfman as you own family guru. Reading her book is second best to that.--Jean Kunhardt, Director of Soho Parenting


Dana Dorfman's When Worry Works nails the today's parenting zeitgeist perfectly! It is the perfect guide for parents of teens in these challenging times. Dorfman's humor and honesty about her own parenting pitfalls make this book relatable, comforting, and nonjudgmental. She also offers a clear roadmap for parents to understand their own anxieties so they can be solid, loving guides to their teens.--Lisa Spiegel, MA, LMHC, Director of Soho Parenting Center, Author of A Mother's Circle and Internal Family Systems with Children Out of all of the stages of childhood, the teen years are notoriously the most difficult for parents to navigate. Teens continue to need our guidance, support and involvement and yet are also working hard to separate from us, to develop their own set of beliefs and ideas and to make their own decisions. And so, there is a delicate balance parents need to strike during this tumultuous time. When Worry Works is a must read for any parent struggling with this complicated combination of opposing needs. Dorfman's wise, reassuring, and practical advice will automatically turn the heat down on these family struggles. She quickly identifies herself as a fellow worrier with teens and so approaches her topic from a place of kindness, knowledge, and identification. She advocates for our children while somehow never judging or criticizing parents. Using compelling vignettes from her own clients she identifies eight different brands of parental anxiety and then guides readers to recognize their own style and then understand the origins of the worry so that they can ward off unhelpful reactions. Hearing Dr. Dorfman gently yet expertly delve into and help parents sort out their worries will make the reader yearn to have Dorfman as you own family guru. Reading her book is second best to that.--Jean Kunhardt, Director of Soho Parenting


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Dana Dorfman, MSW, PhD, is a New York City based psychotherapist with 30 years’ experience treating adolescents and parents in her private practice, schools, and agency settings. As a passionate advocate of adolescent mental health, she is a lecturer and consultant for parenting centers, schools, and corporations. Dorfman is regularly interviewed and quoted in the media on mental health topics and was the co-host of a parenting podcast, 2 Moms on the Couch. Dorfman resides in NYC with her husband, her teenage daughter and son, and their beloved dog, Winnicott.

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