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OverviewFull Product DetailsAuthor: Michael Paymar , Anne GanleyPublisher: Hunter House Publishers Imprint: Hunter House Publishers Dimensions: Width: 21.60cm , Height: 1.30cm , Length: 27.90cm Weight: 0.476kg ISBN: 9781630267612ISBN 10: 1630267619 Pages: 192 Publication Date: 09 April 2015 Audience: General/trade , General Format: Paperback Publisher's Status: Active Availability: In stock  We have confirmation that this item is in stock with the supplier. It will be ordered in for you and dispatched immediately. Table of ContentsForeword Preface Acknowledgments Introduction Why Write a Book for Men Who Batter? A Note to the Reader Chapter 1: A Challenge for Men Andy’s Story Andy’s Story Five Years Later The First Step: Owning the Problem The Next Step: Getting Help How to Use This Book Chapter 2: The Roots of Men’s Violence against Women The Superman Myth How Our Culture Encourages Violence The Struggle for Equality What Men Expect from Relationships Chapter 3: The Origins of Abuse and Sexual Violence Cassie’s Story Bernice’s Story Women and Violence The Violence We Learn at Home The Violence We Learn from Society Why We Use Violence Sexual Violence The Impact of Violence on Sexual Relationships Chapter 4: It’s More Than Just Physical Violence Jim’s Story Using Intimidation to Control Using Threats Blocking Her Freedom to Decide Using the Children to Get to Her The Pain of Emotional Abuse Understanding and Stopping Battering Chapter 5: Getting Past Denial Sid’s Story Taking Responsibility Minimizing Violence Self-Defense or Retaliation? Guidelines for Remaining Nonviolent Letting Go of Blame Alcohol, Drugs, and Violence Anger Chapter 6: Making Changes and Staying on Track Mark’s Story Letting Go Taking Time-Outs Time-Out Rules Self-Talk: Learning to Think Positively Handling Jealousy The Danger of Obsession Chapter 7: Staying Together What Traps a Woman in an Abusive Relationship? The Switzers’ Story It May Always Be a Struggle Understanding and Accepting Women’s Anger Changing the Mind-Set Getting Your Needs Met without Being Abusive Chapter 8: Resolving Conflicts, Strengthening Relationships Elliot’s Story New Relationships, Old Problems Egalitarian Relationships Sharing the Load The Issue of Money Expressing Feelings Learning to Negotiate and Compromise Negotiation Guide Fair Discussion Guide Developing a Personal Responsibility Program Chapter 9: Healing Dave’s Story Dave’s Story Five Years Later Support for Changing Men New Definitions of Masculinity Health and Balance 1 Dating: How Much of the Past Do We Reveal? Talking to Your Children about Your Violence Staying on Course: Your Lifelong Commitment Chapter 10: Veterans Coming Home Hector’s Story Screening for Mental Health Problems Veteran’s Courts Changing Military Culture Chapter 11: Creating Change in Groups Ron’s Story Expectations of Counseling The Theory and Practice of Offender Programs The Duluth Curriculum: New Approaches How Well Does Counseling Work? The Principles of an Offender Program Intake, Orientation and Screening Partner Orientation and Safety Procedures Controversies in the Field Research: What Do We Know? Women that Use Violence in Relationships Chapter 12: Danger and Lethality Dale’s Story from Prison Assessment Tools Chapter 13: Primary Prevention: The New Frontier Stopping Rape on College Campuses Reducing Demand for Violent Pornography Trafficking: Choices for Men Backlash: The War on Women Social ChangeReviewsFinally, someone has written a book for men in offender groups, rather than for those of us who facilitate them. Paymar's book is written to men, using the voices of men. It poses the most central question to men who batter--how did I get here and what does it take for me to change? -- Ellen Pence, Ph.D., founder of Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project A highlight of the book is the many inspiring stories by individual men of their violence and their process of change. This book should convince any man that we can and must stop violence against women. -- Paul Kivel, author of Men's Work: How to Stop the Violence that Tears Our Lives Apart Finally, someone has written a book for men in offender groups, rather than for those of us who facilitate them. Paymar's book is written to men, using the voices of men. It poses the most central question to men who batter--how did I get here and what does it take for me to change? -- Ellen Pence, Ph.D., founder of Duluth Domestic Abuse Intervention Project A highlight of the book is the many inspiring stories by individual men of their violence and their process of change. This book should convince any man that we can and must stop violence against women. -- Paul Kivel, author of Men's Work: How to Stop the Violence that Tears Our Lives Apart Author InformationMichael Paymar has lectured and trained, both nationally and internationally, on human rights and ending gender-based violence. He provides training and technical assistance to professionals in the criminal and civil justice system, law enforcement, and the military on how to end domestic violence. Paymar lives in Minneapolis, MN, where he serves in the U.S. House of Representatives. Anne Ganley lives in Seattle, WA. Tab Content 6Author Website:Countries AvailableAll regions |
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