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From the AuthorFriends, family, and church members are people who will be there for you, help you grow as a Christian, support you through difficult times, and want the best for you. I know countless people like this and am thankful for each and every one of them. But this is not always the case. Some people are treated in cruel or thoughtless ways by their spouses, carers, siblings, and even spiritual leaders. This is not how life is supposed to be; it is not how Christians should relate to other people. During the thirty years that I have been involved in discipleship and biblical counseling, my heart has been broken numerous times by hearing about people being treated in abusive ways. The suffering of these people has caused me to take this issue seriously, believing that there must be answers in the Bible for them to trust the Lord in their situation. This led me to write the two previous books in the Overcoming Emotional Abuse series. These are entitled, The Emotionally Abuse Parent: Its Effects and How to Overcome Them in Christ and, The Emotionally Abusive Husband: Its Effects and How to Overcome Them in Christ. This third book seeks to explore the mindset behind emotional abuse and the behaviors involved across a spectrum of relationships. Inevitably some of the material in this book overlaps with the previous two books in the series in respect of what emotional abuse is and what it does. How this book can help you This book is a resource which provides insights into what emotional abuse looks like across a spectrum of relationships. It considers how someone with an abusive way of thinking tends to operate. The book does not cover physical or sexual abuse but is designed to give some key basic information. It would be helpful if other people would take these insights and explore biblical answers for helping them in an in-depth manner. The author's hope is that this book will help open this discussion. What this book is not A word of caution is necessary. Abusive situations are gravely serious and vary enormously. While insights have been suggested in this book, it is not the definitive answer about how to help abused people. It touches on subjects that are tremendously complicated, and where time is needed to address these areas in an in-depth manner to be able to effectively help people. Well-intentioned but unwise advice can cause suffering and damage lives. Wisdom and insight are required on a case-by-case basis - there are no standard cut-and-dried answers.

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From the Foreword This book continues - after two previous volumes in the series - the process of broadening Anne's influence through her writing about a critically needed area in counseling, a biblically-based discussion of abuse. Her knowledge of the Scriptures and her experience in ministry make Anne the perfect instrument to convey these life-changing truths. Dr. Wayne A. Vanderwier, Director at Large, Overseas Instruction in Counseling. DiscoverOIC.org Commendations from those in the biblical counseling world Anne has done it again! Her writing is perspicuous, theologically accurate, and practical. If you think you might be being abused by a boyfriend or girlfriend, a spouse, or a spiritual leader this small book may help you confirm or disconfirm your perception. If you are a pastor or counselor wondering if you are dealing with a case of abuse, or if an elder or deacon has an abusive mindset, Anne can come to your rescue. Howard Eyrich, MA, ThM, D.Min, Director of Doctor of Ministry Program, Birmingham Theological Seminary, USA. Anne's insights evoke a depth of discernment coupled with understanding and sympathy for those caught in the destruction of emotional abuse. This book will help pastors and biblical counselors obtain the biblical acumen to recognize abusive relationships and give sound counsel that produces a transformational change in Christ. Shannon Kay McCoy, Certified Biblical Counselor, Biblical Counseling Director, Valley Center Community Church, Council Member of Biblical Counseling Coalition; Author of Help! I'm A Slave to Food. In an engaging and truly readable style, Anne manages to present complex issues in an accessible way. As with the other books in this series, it will prove to be a valuable resource for both professionals and non-professionals alike, as well as providing victims - and perpetrators - of abuse a guide as to how to live out a truly godly life. Simon Marshall, International Director, European Christian Mission. For a concise, biblically focused response to emotional abuse, this is your book. Anne aptly presents various expressions of spousal, parent, sibling, disabled, spiritual, and elderly abuse. Then, navigating with biblical skill in a complex arena, she identifies common well-intentioned behavioral and spiritual mistakes and debunks the misuse of Scripture. Sue Nicewander Delaney, MABC, ACBC.

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Anne Dryburgh, Ph.D., is a biblical counselor certified by the Association of Certified Biblical Counselors (ACBC), the International Association of Biblical Counselors (IABC), and The Addiction Connection, a collective of biblical counselors and ministries united for the purpose of training and equipping the Body of Christ in biblically helping addicts and their loved ones. She has been a missionary with Echoes International in Flemish-speaking Belgium since the 1990s and partners with a number of biblical counseling organizations. She is the author of the Overcoming Emotional Abuse series.

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