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Overview'Talking it Better' is a practical book about the everyday practice of counselling and psychotherapy, written by a practitioner for fellow practitioners. Using case studies based on his own clients, Elton carefully examines what helps - and what hinders - the process of change in the therapy room. At the heart of therapeutic work, he argues, is the development of effective mind skills. He explains how counsellors and therapists can borrow valuable ideas from the teachers of skills such as swimming, reading music or learning to drive. And he shows us that, when it comes to developing our mind skills, practice is often far more important than insight or theory. Marie-Anne wants to manage the sergeant major in her head who keeps telling her what to do. Calum wants to learn to hear what his partner is really saying, rather than what he fears she is. Isobel wants to stop rushing to help people and then resenting them because they take her for granted. These, and the many other characters in this book, were profoundly stuck until, through 'talking it better', each found a unique path taking them closer to the self they would prefer to be. Full Product DetailsAuthor: Matthew EltonPublisher: PCCS Books Imprint: PCCS Books Dimensions: Width: 13.80cm , Height: 1.30cm , Length: 21.60cm Weight: 0.320kg ISBN: 9781910919774ISBN 10: 1910919772 Pages: 244 Publication Date: 04 February 2021 Audience: Professional and scholarly , General/trade , Professional & Vocational , General Format: Paperback Publisher's Status: Active Availability: In Print This item will be ordered in for you from one of our suppliers. Upon receipt, we will promptly dispatch it out to you. For in store availability, please contact us. Table of ContentsIntroduction. Part One - Starting to talk. 1. Marie-Anne and her sergeant major, 2. Calum gets prickly, 3. Isobel is a helpful person, 4. Meeting the help-seeker, 5. Responding to the practitioner. Part Two - Pausing to reflect. 6. Issues with insight, 7. Plausible pessimism, 8. Transforming perception, 9. Fear of doing things differently, 10. Learning in relationship. Part Three - Talking it better. 11. Rhona can't quite begin, 12. Morven struggles with confidence, 13. Calum breaks out of old patterns, 14. Isobel's ping, 15. Martyn and his hope-protector, 16. Jana and Lucy find each other impossible, 17. Isla is held back by shame. Part four - Enough talk. 18. How much is enough? 19. Enough to get by, 20. Finishing models, 21. Enough already. Postscript: Marie-Anne. Appendix: Counselling and psychotherapy approaches. Endnotes. References. Index.Reviews'This beautifully written book has a lot to offer to both novice and experienced counsellors and psychotherapists, and alsoto clients. I would recommend it to anyone who is interested in understanding how therapy can make a difference.' Julia McLeod, Lecturer in Counselling and Psychotherapy, Abertay University. 'I read this book avidly, riveted by the author's creativity, the clarity of his presentation, and by the rich, compassionate case studies that weave through his writing from beginning to end. Practitioners of differing approaches and levels of experience will find this book refreshingly practical. It encourages us to explore and experiment, to work respectfully and sensitively.' Phil Lapworth, counsellor, psychotherapist, supervisor and author of Tales from the Therapy Room and Listen Carefully. Author InformationMatthew Elton is a psychotherapist based in Edinburgh. He works with a wide range of clients and has a special interest in writers and artists. His formative training was in transactional analysis and he has since developed a strong interest in narrative therapy. Matthew regularly delivers talks and workshops in Scotland and across the UK on therapy practice and related matters. Previously, he was an academic working on the philosophy of mind at the University of Stirling, then a manager in the charity sector. He is author of a well-received volume on Daniel Dennett in the Polity Key Contemporary Thinkers series, published in 2003. Tab Content 6Author Website:Countries AvailableAll regions |